How to find qualified, affirming support for your child

Start with the concern, not an assumed treatment

A child may want support with identity, distress, bullying, mental health or practical decisions; these are not all the same need. Raising Children Network identifies a GP as a suitable starting point for mental-health concerns and notes that a mental-health clinician experienced in gender dysphoria can help a child work through their experience.

Ask the GP or service about relevant experience, confidentiality, family involvement and referral pathways. Verify professional registration and service arrangements through appropriate Australian sources. General websites cannot assess your child or recommend an individual clinical pathway.

Prepare for a useful appointment

With your child’s involvement, write down what they want help with, relevant changes, strengths, current support and questions. Avoid speaking as if the child is not present. Ask who will provide care, what information will be recorded and how the child and parents can participate in decisions.

Seek a second appropriately qualified opinion if you are uncertain, and avoid providers promising a predetermined outcome. If your child may be in immediate danger, use emergency support rather than waiting for a routine appointment. This resource is general information, not medical advice.

• Identify the support the child is actually seeking.
• Start with a GP or suitable qualified clinician.
• Ask about experience, confidentiality and referrals.
• Prepare questions with the child’s involvement.
• Use urgent or emergency help when safety requires it.